Hello! Husband and I are not in the lifestyle as of today. We are very interested in meeting other couples who are like us; interested, exploring, but not fully swinging. It would be great to explore and learn together, if possible. This will help our comfort level and we are not even sure what we are willing to do or not do because we simply have not had any experiences.

Unfortunately, we don't live close to larger metropolitan areas where there is more access to sex clubs, parties, etc. So, we need to utilize online tools.

Have any of you had luck connecting with others through various apps and/or sites? We are not looking for a quick hookup. We want to make a genuine connection and really get to know our new friends before getting naked right away! lol It seems many of the apps are geared more towards hookups or let's meet sooner than later and get down to business. That's not who we are right now. Not judging.

I know I can search older posts, etc. etc., but I'd love to hear some current advice on what you've found to work. I think our biggest problem is just being patient. We've struggled with apps before because there's so much junk and scamming going on. Any thoughts are much appreciated. Thanks!