New to the LS, well, not even in yet, but looking to jump into it. We are an older couple (55m/54f) who have been together since the 80s. No STDs here and want to keep it that way. How do couples handle testing, both in a club setting and when meeting a couple to play? Is it common to just come out and say “show me your papers?”. My understanding with the club here in Jersey (saint and sinners in AC) people hang out and mingle for a while then everyone makes their way to the play room, gets full nude and the games begin. Are you still walking around with papers down there to show you are safe? Do you cover this upstairs and know before you go play who you will play with? Also, where do you go to get tested. Not really wanting to go to my primary and explain why I’m asking for the tests. Really wish there was a mentoring program for this! So many questions. Lol.