I (27F) and my husband (24M) had our first experience with another guy yesterday and I am sooo unimpressed and turned off by the whole idea of swinging now! My husband was amazing during the whole thing! He was definitely enjoying it. I on the other hand did not. The guy who joined us did not groom or shower I believe. When I want in to go down on him I had to stop myself from gagging.( and not in the good way)I focused mainly on my husband from there to not be rude.

I asked if he wanted to go first and he said yes! We started but then he was done after 2 min. He then said if I went down on him he could get hard again. I sucked it up and tried because I felt for the guy. He couldn’t get hard. I went on with my husband from there so I could try and enjoy some part of this whole thing. He went to try again and just could not get it up. So he tried playing with my clit. He was rubbing so frantically ( kinda reminded me of a teen aged boy not knowing what he was doing). All in all my husband found it hot and I was left in the dust feeling gross and dissatisfied. Anyone else have this? Should I have stopped it and just said I wasn’t feeling it? I don’t know I’m just bleh about even wanting to try again.