Hi, myself 25f and my husband 31m have recently decided to open up our sexual relationships and try a swinging. We’re talking to a lovely couple and looking into clubs. I am happily bi and he is straight!

Neither of us are feeling jealous of eachother and I’m so excited to see him with another woman. We’ve talked about threesomes millions of times and being with (another/a) woman is something we both want to explore. However it’s becoming at a lot easier to find couples rather than single women, so swaps are potentially going to be our main route into this lifestyle.

The issue I’m encountering is I feel so guilty about the idea of having sex with another man. I’ve been with my husband since I was 18 and he’s the genuine love of my life. When it comes to sleeping with another man even in front of him when he’s fine with it makes me feel like I’m cheating on him. Sleeping with a woman feels fine to me but I can’t shake this feeling that I’m doing something wrong.

My husband is fine with me being with another man but it’s making me feel awful.

I need some advice, what do I do from here? How can I look at it differently? What can I do to change how I feel?

All advice would be appreciated.

E ❤️