My husband is very attractive and there is no shortage of women/men who want him. He's also very charming and high energy. We have been together for 12 years and we got together because I made the first move.

I'm just being honest. I'm not a pretty woman. I'm 5'4 128#, but built like a boy, no curves and after having 2 children, my stomach is not flat. Men don't hit on me or have ever pursued me. In my entire life, even in my prime, I've only been called cute. Men have fallen head over heels for me, but it's because I've learned to be funny and charming. People love my personality.

So here's the situation. There's this woman my husband works with and they share dirty talk. He will tell her about what he does to me in the bedroom and she tells him about the guy she is banging. She is jealous of the amount of sex we have because we are both high drive and she's never been with a man who matched hers.

My husband wants us to meet and see if we have a connection/attraction and maybe have mff play.

Here's the thing. She's a conventionally attractive woman. Slim, 5 years younger, hourglass figure, pretty face, feminine appearance and dress. I don't know if she is bisexual (I'm not but willing to explore) but I just feel certain she wouldn't be attracted to me. I'm a frumpy ogre compared to her.

I think it would be hot to see my guy fucking another woman, but I think it would be incredible if miraculously we could all be attracted to each other and have that kind of experience.

I guess I want to hear about experiences of bisexual women who hooked up with a couple where there was a looks disparity. Did the unattractive wife turn you off. What kind of women do you find attractive? Would you prefer if I just watched or is even having an ugly person watching you too much to feel sexy? Please, total honesty.

I know everyone is going to say I have low self esteem and I'm not ugly, but trust me on this, I am.