Being a newer couple in the LS we have met a lot of very cool people. Stopped comunication with more than a few, ignore over half of the rest, and met another couple not too long ago that were a good possibility.

The thing to keep in mind is that we are constantly trying to improve ourselves. We have now gotten to the point of not being as openly accepting as we may have initially been. This is where it goes toward the direction of this newer couple. She always gives me "F me" eyes and throws the right signals, where he is watching her to see if he should make a move. This leads to the BIG question I have after we have met several times.

How do I say, "Quit screwing with my head", without giving them the middle finger. They are pretty popular, and we would be black-balled if I did say what I was thinking. I realize we all have situations that we deal with in our lives, so I'm not hating on them for that. Any other ways to say it, as we only ever go to public events and outings (not meeting other swingers online)? Nothing has happened, but I really need to clear the air. The times it almost worked out it was a deliberate stall on their part (first time), and the second time my anxiety was spiked for 3 weeks due to work which led to me getting sick. Communication is faulty at best.