Do you meet up with people cheating on their spouse?

I get annoyed by putting “ethical” in front of everything, because in this case ENM that isn’t ethical, it is simpler to call it cheating.

I’ve had a few cases where people have reached out on apps looking to meet up, which is always appreciated, but their partner isn’t their spouse. That’s all well and good, but their spouses don’t know that their partners are playing around.

For us, it crosses a boundary. But I get that marriages are complicated so I can’t be too judgy.

What about y’all out there? Do you play with people who aren’t being playing with all their cards in the table?