I can't help but notice when couples reach out it's ALWAYS with one or more photo of the female but very rarely do you ever get a photo of the male counterpart. If you do without having to request one it's solely their cock. Otherwise you almost always have to ask to see what the guy looks like beyond his wein. Why? All effort and what's given to preview is put into what guys find attractive. It's as if unless a woman is also attracted to other women her attraction is irrelevant. I'm sorry but I don't believe women are out here oh his cock looks amazing or it's so big which is the only deciding factor as to wether or not she'd be willing to play with it. Women are pickier by nature definitely not the gender to fuck someone who they aren't attracted to, an since when does what a dick looks like have anything to do with attraction typically that's the last thing on a man you get to see not first. Can anyone please give me some insight on this? Because I can't help but feel like women's opinion or preferences are irrelevant in swinging and it's literally something for men. Over half the time I've requested to see what the male looks like they don't even continue responding? What am I supposed to do let someone fuck me regardless of their appearance because my partner finds theirs hot?

(Female side of newbie couple throwaway account)