This is a long story and I'll add more in the comments as I remember since my brain is fried. 7 years, 1 married and WH cheated the entire year married. It was online stuff with multiple girls on final fantasy 14, an online game. He would exchange erotic role play, actual sexts, porn pics of their characters with his, real life nudes, voice chat sex, and video sexing. Some back story: I noticed he was acting off, ditching plans and spending less time with me. Always talking about these girls as his friends, not having sex with me much ( his choice, I would have done anything sexual to get him in bed). I was the bread winner and he was unemployed the entire relationship, I cooked, cleaned and was supportive of him and his hobby. We had a rough patch before marriage where an online friendship of mine almost became an EA. Once I identified the signs and that I was weak to it because of lack of intimacy (he stopped touching me, having sex with me, even looking at me, refused therapy and other fixes, and didn't make me feel attractive or wanted in any way), I talked to him about it and we brok up. For the week we weren't together, I was there for him and he was secretly monitoring my texts and online messages. We ended up getting back together after he promised to do better and I agreed to remove the almost EA from my life. 1 year later : we were married and even though he never did better and sex became once a year and not even on our wedding night (193 days later), I was so in love and excited for our future. He always told me he was too. I found out the first affair that summer. I was going to his office to ask for help cooking something since my hand was in a cast. Outside his office I heard him in voice call arguing with someone about how they were cheating on him! After hearing enough I broke down and made myself known. I cried, he convinced me it was just erotic role play with their characters, co-op writing if you will. I chose to believe him and told him to stop but didn't ask him to remove her (I was naive). They ended up having a falling out because AP1? was jealous of AP4?. The falling out affected him horribly and I was there for him the entire time.

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