Every man in my life just uses me and leaves. I'm done. The man I've spent 4yrs with hated me enough to cheat instead of telling me he wanted to end it. He waits for me to feel taken for granted, abused and alone then cheats.

The new guy I started to like blocks me bc he's "from a different state" and is new to the USA. I didn't even ask to go on a date with him, just that we talk as friends. Which he used me for 2 weeks, saying how much he liked and respected me only to say that he's never had a connection like this before and just to have phone s*x and now I'm blocked ???

An ex abuser of mine posted a Pic of his gf which he never ever has done ever. And it only makes me feel like all the men in and right outside of my life are designed to destroy my confidence and self esteem. I'm losing my mind, and no before you said it I don't need a man to be happy.

HOWEVER having a support system in my life helps me with my career and my self esteem. I've had exes in the past just tell me how proud of me they were when I did things on my own. I need a friend. A companion that isn't going to abuse my kindness so I've reached out to an old friend.

Old friend at first seems empathetic and caring but then he immediately asks if I want to hookup to get over my ex and my crush. Which I said no, now he's being rude and cold towards me. Every time I ask him about his day or talk about mine he goes "ok"

It's useless. I feel useless.

I'm done.