I just don’t understand how a man of stature and means is attracted to all that . I don’t understand how girls expect to be valued. Online or IRL because of the online world being so wide open.Being a SB is supposed to be a luxury lifestyle that a man with means offers to a woman he genuinely wants to help be successful in her goals or just make her happy because he cares and she quenches his thirsty needs whatever they may be. But it’s always mutually beneficial and reciprocity and effort is important. At least I always thought.Not what it’s turned into. It’s sad. Seems more like an auction than a relationship, friendship, situation ship or any ship. Not saying it shouldn’t be sexually driven but damn. Why the hell would they wanna buy anything when it’s all being thrown out there wide open for free. I’m looking for a classy , wealthy man, who wants to be treated well and appreciated even better in very un-vanilla ways. But damn I’m not trying to flash my poonani to get an SD or a man for that matter. I’m far from a prude so please don’t think that. I just don’t get it. It literally makes no sense. I can see this being escorts lover-John-boy cat yeller to catch ‘em’ and there’s nothing wrong with escorts I just feel like the lines aren’t just blurred they are flat out non existent. Am I wrong?