So heres my story, sad as it may be i just miss my old SB at this point.

Had a really solid SB first couple years i lived in Beverly Hills, she was a UCLA undergrad, we saw each other once or twice a week at most, she was flexible with my work schedule and oh-so cute when we spent time together. She looked after me and would make us breakfast in the mornings when she stayed over. We went on 4 international trips together and she always knew how to act infront of partners or clients, came with me on multiple events and all in all was a great companion. We never argued once or had a disagreement, no hassle or drama just two cool people hanging out and smoking together when we spent time. She got her monthly allowance and never asked for more or changed the terms of our agreement. All in all it was the perfect setup. Well she graduated this year and left LA to get back to the east coast. She asked if i wanted her to stay in LA and i told her she should follow her path and not let me hold her back, she's told me since that was her way of asking me to ask her to stay but i apparently didn't notice.

Been looking for a new SB since september and i don't know what's happened in the 2 years since i last had to but i just feel everyone now is a scam. Trust me, before there was a healthy % of scams also but you could kind of tell who was real vs who was just looking to make a quick buck or waste someone's time. Before, there was still a bunch of real college students just looking for help with car payments or food shopping and the like, exactly what i would be looking for. I don't want to effectively be paying an escort on a monthly retainer but helping someone through a challenging phase of life as they support me in the ways i need. Like last time i just want to have someone that can provide me affection and companionship when i want and for whom in turn i can relieve some financial stress. The issue is now everyone wants money up front, or money to just speak or money to send a picture or money to bloody breathe. All i wanted is another cool young companion to hang out with so i don' thave any relationship drama or bs in my life while my work is my priority. I've tried all the sites and still nothing real, my question i guess is does that SB/SD relationship even exist anymore or is it just all scammers and fake 'influencers' trying to make a quick buck?