I just had my first intimate encounter with my SD today and he’s honestly the sweetest lil thing. Blue collar guy but owns a business that does extremely well. He’s like so impressed and captivated by everything I do and say, he’s been gushing the whole afternoon since I left. And extremely generous. Even before we ever met he sent me $500 (split up), to get some clothes and just be sweet. He asked me on top of my allowance if I needed anything, he’ll send me more later this week, etc. I mentioned off-hand in a text about wanting a puppy and he’s insisting on giving me one for Christmas. Which is very cute. 😆

I actually really enjoyed the time and basking in all the adoration.

I’m really learning to focus on leaning into this feminine energy and let myself be taken care of, because I’m actually married with kids and do most of it myself because my husband travels (he knows I do this and supports it), and sometimes I feel like I can come into a masculine space/energy a lot since so much rests on my shoulders in our home life and our marriage/relationship. So this is honestly great practice to form those habits, which might sound so silly but it’s really changed my perspective in a positive way to actually want to improve as a wife/female partner. What a weird way to learn, but whatever works I guess!