First time poster here! I’m pretty new at this but I’ve connected with several men via Seeking and none seem to be willing to offer verification? One guy I dunno if he gave me a fake name but doesn’t exist on the internet, despite supposedly owning a company in my town.. and we’ve kind of gone in circles about him insisting on giving me $100 to meet up for coffee and feel it out in person.. do these men think that women on these sites are just going to scream from the rooftops that “so-and-so” is in a sugar dating situation? Or men trying to jump very quickly to sexual talk without expressing any interest to have an actual correspondence and interest in taking care of a potential SB.

I’ve been very firm about verifying SOMETHING before meeting in person, but how tactfully or direct do you need to be about it being for safety reasons, inherent risk for women doing this, etc.

I’m seeing more on this sub about how trash Seeking is and is this what people mean? I’m pretty firm in what I’m envisioning for a respectful and beneficial and enjoyable arrangement, which seems reasonable or am I being naive?

Xoxo