nsfw tag for the content of below messages !

sharing a conversation with a 36 year old i found on sa. (i should probably stop with the under 40s). i tried giving him the benefit of the doubt because we seemed to align in what we want, but i think that’s where i went wrong.

him: “That sounds perfect baby! As far as sexuality what are you into? Daddy has a big thick cock with stamina. I like oral, kissing, multiple rounds, spanking, light choking, hair pulling, and ass play.”

me: “I don't think I like or dislike anything out of the ordinary. I'm comfortable with all that you said minus ass play. I must say though, while l understand that SD/SB arrangements are of course mutually beneficial, all but your initial three messages to me have been sexual. I think respect is important, so you jumping in to referring to yourself as "daddy" and talking about your penis is a turn off.”

him: “Thats what this is, if im not your cup of tea i get it. I have had several successful arrangements in the past with the same attitude, language, and bluntness with no Issues.”

brother ew. am i crazy for thinking this is so strange?