Hey ya’ll. I had an experience recently that’s left me feeling kind of shook. I’m not new to the sugar world but I’ve also never had a great experience with a stable, consistent sd. Anyway I just graduated and need some financial stability so I joined seeking arrangements. There were lots of scammers and fake profiles so when I was having a good conversation with someone who was verified, I was hopeful. He seemed kind and was upfront about his past arrangements and expectations. They aligned with what I was looking for, so we met up to get ice cream. We clicked (he was funny and polite) and so we agreed to begin an arrangement.

When we got to his place he immediately told me to take my clothes off. He said he was more dominant, and since I’m more submissive and he knew this, I thought that’s what this was about. Looking back at what happened after, and I won’t go into details, I was manipulated into doing some things I wasn’t fully on board with and are now haunting me.

At the end, he did send me some money but it was significantly less than the amount we agreed on. I requested more but he refused and I felt pretty worthless and helpless. I want to report him but he blocked me and I don’t know what to do. I know law enforcement isn’t an option but I want to keep others safe from him.

I guess I’m seeking advice but also putting out a reminder to stay safe. You really can’t trust anyone. Also please don’t comment if you’re going to shame me, I feel enough shame already.