I don't know why you waste your time and effort to negotiate your allowances and terms after you've laid it all out for these guys, only for them to push your boundaries and do it in their own terms. Most of you give them the benefit of the doubt and think they're just new. Some of you even go out your way to express how they should know how to treat sugaring better.

Newsflash, they know, they just don't want to.

And seriously, do you want to be with someone who disrespected you in the first place? Those guys don't even have the potential so stop calling them as one.

Ladies, please learn how to be assertive and gatekeep yourselves from guys lowballing you. You should be embarrassed for them doing that. Imagine, a guy years older than you is having a tantrum because he can't have you for $100. Come on now.

This is not victim blaming. Stop positioning yourself as one. You don't get taken advantage of if you educate yourself in the first place instead of educating these men how to treat you. A gentleman knows what to do, a guy pretending as one don't.