Hi all, just a bit of a vent about how my experience sugaring has been over a couple years in Central Europe. I’m not new, I’ve been in the bowl for 2 years and had some nice arrangements in the past (I’m almost 20). I took a break last year and have been back for 3-4 months.

Nowadays all the messages I get on Seeking and a sugar dating site specific to my country disgust me 🤮 All these Johns offering 150-500 ppm wanting intimacy at the M&G. I refuse to date for less than 1k ppm, which considering how expensive this country is is NOT unreasonable (rent for student ROOM with kitchen only, shared bathroom in my midsize city is 1K). But most girls here ask for 200-600 ppm and that makes it way harder to find SDs who can afford me.

Out of the many many POTs I spoke to the #1 problem was ghosting, we would arrange a time place, discussed allowance and they canceled 80% of the time. Only one out of the few who did show up, I went into an arrangement with. Got my allowance, then he messaged me saying he can’t see me again because him and his ex wife want to give things a shot again. I’m just so tired of this inconsistency, cheapness and dustiness. Just when I found one that was nice, funny, and generous he becomes unavailable.

I feel like there’s basically nothing more for me to gain from this. I also do online SW and offer different arrangement-type packages which literally cost more than the average PPM I’m offered here. No excessive emotional labor or physical contact required. I’m tired of entertaining all these brokies hoping to find one who KNOWS the value of an SB and is willing to compensate me appropriately.

Luckily I’m moving to the US in 2 years for my education and can’t wait to see what the bowl holds for me there. Seems 1000x better than European bowl. Meanwhile idk if I should just give up and focus on my OF or if 3-4 months isn’t enough to give up already. Before I took a break it was much much easier to find POTs who could afford me.If anybody in the area has had the same experience or some words of advice I'd love to hear it