One of my SDs sent that message as he sent my allowance for this month. We couldn't see each other now because it's his son's birthday but we talked about some time next week for a lunch or a dinner date as long as it doesn't conflict with my school schedule.

Inside reaction: Literal barf. You're divorced twice and married now yet somehow, you're still looking for other women. Your words can't fool me 🙄

Outside reaction: Awww honey, that's so sweet. I appreciate that so much. Thank you 💖

Anyway, I'm gonna treat myself on a spa day, probably get a trim and some hair treatment done too. That's how I secure my bags. Just detaching my real self from these men's delululand thinking. Let them project their fantasies on me and say whatever they want as long as they give my allowance correctly. Whatever they do in their time with themselves, family, or anyone else, I don't care because it's not affecting me. That's our arrangement.

The funny thing is, most of these guys are the first ones who will ask for "eXcLuSiViTy" lol. We all know you're married or in a relationship with someone outside the bowl. We all know that, unless it's a naive woman thinking you're gonna leave your family behind to run away with her which I highly doubt any woman believes so.

Don't fumble the bag, ladies. You can still have your morals while keeping yourself sane. I've heard all kinds of sweet words from smooth talkers out there. You know what I only believe? Their money.