my SD & I have been together for a few years, he has been married before and now pays alimony. He’s a business owner and on his way to retirement, we’re both excited for him to finally take some time off and of course to stop being obligated to pay alimony. However, once he stops working he won’t exactly have money coming in regularly. Over the years we’ve been together he’s never spoke openly to me about his finances and with him getting closer to retirement i don’t want to be the reason he’s unable to do things he wants to do post retirement (buy an antique car, go on vacation monthly, shop for new clothes just because etc etc), with all these things being said .. how do i ask him whether i’ll become a financial burden for him in the future years without taking an accidental stab at this pride but just showing genuine concern for him being able to live freely looking forward into his retirement years.