What do you say if a new SD or POT asks about your other arrangements? I'm up front that I'm not monogamous, but they sometimes ask questions about my other relationships. I usually say something like "we don't need to talk about them" or tell them to just worry about us, but it's kind of annoying. I'm also married and some of them want detailed information about the state of it 🙄. Which I mind a lot less, but I consider other SD info to be out of bounds.

Sidebar question: How many daddies so you have? I have one currently but 5 POTs and I'm wondering how many is too many 😂 I'm going to dump my current one because he's cheap, so I might end up with 3 or 4 in the end.