Hi!

We posted on here before and have messaged a few people but every time we get close to meeting up with someone F gets cold meet and goes dark, sorry to all of the potential friends that we ghosted. Out of respect for her when she goes dark I also go dark as I don’t want her to feel pressured or feel bad that she got cold feet.

My question is how did you guys get stared? Who brought it up and how did you talk about it? F always shows interest but then gets scared when things start to get serious.

We have been together for about 12 years now and are engaged. Something that has changed recently, which is why I am posting again. Is that F has really started to open up more sexually, telling me verbally what she wants and being more assertive with initiating and more assertive during sex (huge turn in). The other week she did bring up MFM and couples again so because if this I’m thinking she might be more ready then before. Advice?

P.S: Sorry again to those that we have ghosted. I did save everyone’s names in hopes of contacting in the future, there were definitely a few couples/people we were interested in! If you wanted to reconnect feel free to message us.