TLDR;

We are a group of East and Southeast Asian men, women, femmes in our 20s and 30s in the DMV who enjoy food, fun, and sex. Currently we are looking for couples and single women/femme individuals (no single males, sorry) interested in joining us for fun in and out of the bedroom. Send a chat invite/DM if you meet the requirements below - please don't waste your time or ours if you don't.

Observations from our last post:

So a couple of months ago we had a post with some very sexy pictures (sorry to those who didn't see them, you'll have to use your imagination) along with blurbs with what we were looking for and how to be considered for the group. To say the experience of reviewing all the chat requests/DMs was daunting would be an understatement. It was very evident that people did not read the post and just reached out, or they read the post but chose to ignore what we were looking for/how to be considered. Please don't waste our time, or yours. Our preferences are there and are decided as a group, please respect it. Our instructions on how to be considered are there for the safety of everyone as well as makes sure we are all on the same page.

Experience so far:

Just a quick blurb here as we had people reach out saying they were planning to form their own groups in their hometowns; that is awesome! Community building is amazing and to form a community of like minded individuals, even without sex, is incredibly rewarding and fulfilling. The toughest part of group play would definitely be planning out events - scheduling something for a dozen or so people while keeping in mind travel, other plans, cycles, etc. is extremely difficult. My words of advice would be to just put something on the calendar where a good number of people can attend; getting everyone is not always possible. Also, make sure there are a lot of snacks and water, and most importantly, before starting any play, to have everyone sit down and go over their boundaries, limits, likes, kinks, safe words they are use to, etc. Consent is paramount in this setting.

Last note, this sub has lead to a number of new members and it's lovely to know that despite being a smaller sub, that we could find people in the area who aligned with us so well and are now such great friends. Here's to hoping we find more!

What we are looking for:

We are looking for couples and women/femme individuals to join us for adventures in and out of the bedroom.

Requirements:

• Asian, ideally East or Southeast Asian (both partners if a couple)
• Be respectful, discreet, and accepting of queer and genderfluid individuals; just be a good person/people
• STI/STD free and recently tested; please be willing to share recent results if asked
• Be in your 20s and 30s
• HWP; you don’t have to be a model but ideally fit
• Living in the DMV (DC, Maryland, NOVA); not looking for one-off play or spectators
• Use of condoms during play unless you’re with your partner or discussed with group members as okay without
• Have Snapchat for face verification

Preferred:

• Be comfortable with having pictures or videos taken during play (you can request to not be included)
• Be comfortable with kink – boundaries, rules, and limits are always discussed before play
• Be able to attend an event at least once a month or so

How to be considered:

Chat invite/DM us the following if you meet the criteria above:

1. A picture of yourselves with a post-it/piece of paper containing your username and the date (you don’t not need to have your faces shown), and a general picture you would normally share to show off your bodies (you can let us know if your profile already contains pictures). So this would be two pictures unless you already have pictures on your profile.
2. Your age, where you are in the DMV, and a quick blurb about yourselves and your experience in the lifestyle (if any). A good blurb would discuss your hobbies, sexual interests, etc.

If you do not meet the criteria and don't follow the instructions above, we will not respond. If you meet all the criteria and followed the instructions but don't get a response, we were simply not interested. No hard feelings - you are all incredible and sexy and we wish you the best of luck in your swinger adventures.