First, I want to rave a little. I first got into kink at a late age. I’m 52. And I also got into it at a bad time—right at the start of pandemic. It’s taken me a long time to find people and a community where I can start expressing my kinky side. But I was very luck to find an amazing dominant woman, and we’ve now been dating for several weeks.

We both have (very supportive) poly families already, and we only meet in person once a week, but we do chat a lot on Discord. Now she’s going to be away for several weeks, and we’re really feeling the lack of in-person contact. I know a lot of people on here have participated in long-distance relationships. Can anyone offer some good suggestions to get our kink fix in when we’re not physically together?

To provide a little more context, she really values flexibility and isn’t interested in an ongoing D/s dynamic. When we’re not explicitly doing kink, our relationship is egalitarian. That said, she has a huge interest in all things kinky and has generally been willing to try almost anything as long as it’s something that we can define as having an explicit beginning and end.

She is more experienced in kink than I am, and is often the one to offer suggestions and ideas, but I don’t think she’s had much experience with long distance kink. Something to help build connection and make us feel like we’re together despite the distance would be really amazing. We share a lot of physical touch, and not having that, even for a few weeks, is making us a bit stir crazy!