Hey, everyone. There’s something that’s been weighing on me very heavily and I could use some support.

That thing is I’m worried that I’ll never have a domme. It’s not because of BDSM. BDSM is a very popular kink and I’m sure dominant women are more common than any of us realize. It’s just that I’m EXTREMELY bad with women and I’m not sure if any domme will ever want me as her sub or even if any vanilla woman will ever want me as her BF or husband. I’m always completely clueless when talking to women and my conversations with them never last long. And that’s when I manage to start a conversation in the first place. A lot of them don’t seem to be open to it. I’ve also done really stupid things that have come off as creepy. And I’m not hideous, but I’m not exceptionally handsome either.

This has made me very depressed and prone to anger and jealousy. I know I don’t have any right to feel that way because it’s the womens’ choice, but I can’t just flip a switch and make the feelings go away. If I could do that, I would have by now.

It’s just really hard being a sub and not knowing if any domme will ever want you, and I could use some support.

(This is NOT a “How/where to find a domme” post. I realize that the way to do it is to find a vanilla partner and introduce her to my kinks once we get really close. The problem is that no one even wants to be my vanilla partner)