How does your dynamic work? What's the power balance like?

Are there days when your Daddy just can't daddy, and also doesn't have the time before to sort of debrief about their emotions and just go really soft and needs to be loved, spoiled, petted? How does that not affect the dynamic? What's the understanding here? What do you do in your capacity as a little who is mostly used to serving daddy based on his wishes or getting spoiled.

I am especially interested in knowing, if you're a little with severe abandonment issues and tend to take daddy's distancing personally, even though it is not your fault at all and is purely circumstantial.