So last year I opened up about my submissive kink after years of marriage. To my vanilla wife it was all a alot to take in but she was open to exploring it a little.

I constantly worry that I’m pressuring her into to being my dom so I try to ensure that I am making what she truly wants a priority instead of what my preconceived notions of being dominated are. To that end I had the idea to try chastity with her if she wanted to be my keyholder.

Again I could tell she thought it was alot but said she’d try it.. fast forward several months, several cages, and several different periods of her keeping me locked up and letting me out(longest was I think 13 days.) - Im pretty sure she’s never letting me out now and I think this my life now.

She has me completely wrapped around her finger. I happily serve her though the day, do chores constantly and my favorite parts of the day are when she lets me lay my head on her stomach and hold her. Of course she gets anything sexual she wants only when she wants it and how she wants it.

A few days ago i was fingering her while sucking on her clit(my dick still locked in my cage) till she had a good orgasm. Then she rewarded me for “being a good little bitch” by laying on her stomach and letting me feast on her ass. I was sooo horny I kissed every inch of her ass cheeks, licked every bit of ass crack till it was shiny and thoroughly fucked her ass with my tongue.

which leads me to my current dilemma, I get sooooooooo sooooooo horny sometimes. All i could think about for the next week was how I wanted to eat her ass again and I get soo thirsty. how do I handle this?

She went to the store the other day and I was so thirsty I used a dildo on my own ass and im straight. I just get so thirsty now that she keeps me locked up. Im not sure if I should tell her I did that or not? would she be upset? Is that a betrayal? She is still warming up to all this.

Edit: all input is welcome not just men w wives. bad title.