I’m hoping to get collared tomorrow. We’ve been talking at length and setting expectations and boundaries. We both have very healthy vanilla lives and neither of us wants that disrupted. He is exactly the Dom I’ve been waiting for and missing. I’ve known him for over 2 years so a lot has been established in regards of trust and respect. He has a lot of experience (as do I) and that is what is missing these days. So many of these guys just want to play the part as an excuse to get rough. Little do they know that is the least important part of a D/s relationship.

So if all goes well, tomorrow I will be back in my bliss of submission. Wish me luck. This was my first post in here. Hehe

Question. He wants me to choose a day collar. I’ve never had a day collar because i choose to be discreet about this side of me. My job is with kids. So it can’t be obvious There are so many options. Any suggestions would help.