I finally blocked and deleted the number of an abusive Dom. He would freak out whenever he did not get his way, call me and my concerns stupid, call me annoying and insufferable, and hurl general insults whenever I said no to him. I should have known from our first date when I asked to reschedule and he sent a two page essay on why he needs someone who sticks by their word and I would be so lucky to have him. He would say I was messed up in the head and wouldn’t find anyone because of it. My friends, who know of our D/s dynamic, have consistently said he’s a walking red flag.

Yet no matter when I tried to walk away, I would go back. This time I’m not going to

Stay safe out there subs. There’s a lot of toxic people who use this kink to justify their abuse