My wife (27) and I (33) have been married for a year and a half. We're both from a South Asian country but now living in the U.S. I am in IT and she is a RN. We have no kids.. She is an extremely submissive person inside and out of the bedroom. I am too submissive and we have spoken and also tried adding a dominant to our marriage. So far we have only had online doms and we feel like that is now what we need. we have also talked, done research, and learned about the 24/7 TPE dynamic that is not only limited to the sexual side but also extends as a lifestyle and we're both very interested. However, we have not had any luck with our search for a dom who understands this and is willing to commit in real life (only sexually and mostly online). What is the best way to approach this regarding finding the correct person who can lead us? Thank you!