Hi guys xxx I am new to dom/sub and have been talking to a dom for about 5-6 months now. We met online on reddit and I'd say we get along. He usually is communicative, and we even met up one time recently, he respected my boundaries and we ended the night early.

I understand he is really busy, so I try not to spam him but I am really talkative and he said he doesn't mind. Recently he started replying to me only one day a week... Im kind of bratty so i acted bratty about it, trying to express I dont like it, but he said he hopes i know this is just apart of the dynamic. I understand that but I dont like that he didnt tell me hed be doing that!! I dont know how to address this with him, especially bc he isnt checking my messages even now lol usually its on monday but he hasnt responded to me all week and its tuesday now :(

I dont want to give up because I like him otherwise and I think we get along?? unless I am imagining it being one sided but I cant imagine hed just ghost me since he said he doesnt do ghosting

edit: sorry if it seems like im holding on for no reason, im FtM and its really hard to find someone who isnt a chaser for a d/s relationship and he has been really respectful of my identity the whole time so im just really sad about potentially having to end this

edit 2: thank u guys for your responses!! I read everything while at work LOL. I sent him a message about parting ways and if he doesnt respond by tomorrow ill take that as an agreement to end the relationship. really sad right now but i need to value myself more. thank you everyone for sharing your experiences