Hi everyone! I recently posted about a great experience i had with my dom. We went through a rough patch for a couple months (march - july) and I wasn’t getting any of my needs met. I accidentally met another dom (let’s call him Sam) online during that time and I started following his rules and serving him. I did tell my dom about him and he was (seemingly) okay with it. We recently talked about boundaries and he said he was hurt that I decided to find someone else to meet my needs (he was understanding of why i needed to). However, Sam occasionally tries to call (he lives in Europe and i’m in the states) but sometimes i’m asleep. He’ll ask me to dress up for him and send photos. All of which i was okay with doing since my dom and i were in a slump. but since talking and reestablishing boundaries, i need to find a way to end things with Sam. this is where i messed up. i didn’t tell Sam about my dom. My dom and i hadn’t played in 3 months and i was desperate to submit to someone and he was completely willing to have me. it was out of loneliness and desperation. i am very scared to upset him and im not even sure how to begin that conversation.