(Speaking from a heterosexual, monogamous pov to those in similar 24/7 or TPE dynamics)

So i have a very kind/soft dom (both new to the game and haven't really established much), which I like, but I also want him to be more in control of me in certain ways so I feel more like his, you know. And I feel like talking to other guys feels a bit like cheating (not in a relationship) or disobeying him even though we haven't set any rules yet. Like, I want him to be more possessive over me by not allowing it (not including preexisting friendships), and I'm pretty sure he would allow it but maybe secretly not want it (just by the type of person he is), but I like the possessiveness. So I just wanted to know what other subs are doing/have done?

Are you not allowed any (or at least any new) friends as the same sex as your dom? Or do you just have certain rules about it? And if allowed, if no flirting or anything like that is allowed, how do you tell a guy off? Just say you have a bf, dom, it's complicated, or what? Just wanted to hear from other subs before I bring it up to him 🙂