My dom and I are fairly new to the life style and are currently creating a shared spreadsheet to track everything. In my list of likes/desires there’s something I want to add but I don’t know what to call it.

I had a partner previously who between rounds (so already naked) would wait until I was distracted talking and in the middle of a sentence would start playing with me. I’d usually immediately lose my train of thought and stop talking. Then in kind of teasing voice he’d say something along the lines of “what was that about xx?” or “go on” and he’d make me stammer through the rest of my story until I was done.

On kind of a similar note I love when they tease me (verbally) when I’m about to cum.

Is there a kink that describes this or is this something I’m just going to have to explain?