I’ve always been submissive but I more recently was able to embrace my identity as a sub. I just moved but before I did someone I was interested in turned out to be a dom. We played a few times before I had to leave and now that I’m gone I’m just sad. I communicate with him fairly often and sometimes there are kinky undertones but for the most part it’s friendly.

Having a casual friends that sometimes have benefits situation is ok, but right now it’s hard to focus on that because I loved submitting to him and I’m so sad I didn’t have longer. I can’t stop thinking about it.

Is this sub frenzy? How do I move past it? He’s a great guy otherwise and I want to get to a place of genuine friendship.