Last night was my first time going to a good club. I was really liking a certain girl on stage, as she just seemed the most into with her facial expressions, or just knew how to work a guy over well.

After figuring out to her name, I went over to the private area to request a three song dance from her. It was really good and I enjoyed it a lot, but something kept bothering me.

I am a 27yr trans man that is completely passable. Once she sat back on my lap she just started grinding away and getting harder and more into me. At one point she even asked if she was hurting me.

Being trans, I got aroused for sure, but I don’t get hard. And it kept feeling that’s what she was feeling for. Like, why would this guy pick me out on purpose, and not enjoy it?

Does a stripper expect a young guy to get hard during a few lap dances? Like I would go back for her again for even more, but I don’t want it to seem weird to her.