My wife and I have been together since we were young and have only recently been to a few clubs. It was her request to go for the first time as she has recently began to open up more sexually (low 30s). Idk if this makes a difference but she is very attractive.

The most recent time we went with my friend and his gf, and found a seat at the stage that had probably 10-15 people around it. We sat at the stage for probably 4-5 dancers and I spent probably $30 as we were just kind of hanging out. Not sure if that's an appropriate amount or not, just saying.

Each dancer that came up seemed to give me a lot of attention. Like, legs on my shoulders, moving their thong and spread eagle in my face kind of attention. Not the sort of action I would've expected for a few casual bucks. One of the dancers climbed off the stage and gave me a lapdance, legitimately after about $3.

My wife was caught off guard and had an issue with how much attention I was receiving (really not my fault). I'm 6'3 250 lbs and workout, but I'm not a head-turner by any means.

I'm really looking for some insight as to why it was like this the night as I have my own theories.