I’m a 65 year-old guy who asked a few questions here a couple years ago. Some of you gave me great answers. You told me I didn’t have to be the club hero. Just have a good time.

But a lot of you have been, and are, going through some serious shit. I’m not talking about made up stories to play on me. And some of you are heroes to me - really.

My favorite right now is 27. Raped at twelve, she has a 15 year-old boy with serious disabilities; but I’ve never seen a more dedicated mom. And she’s always positive - smiling and giving good energy to people. She’s on the thick side and gets turned down a lot. A couple of young women told me they saw her crying quietly in a corner. She was really in a tough spot financially. They shared their tips with her.

That’s when I started to get tearful. I said to myself, “Fuck it. From now on, I’m her regular.” I told the others I was waiting for her. They weren’t just understanding, they were supportive - kinda’. They poked fun at me and call me “captain sav-a-ho”. That cracked me up. I don’t care.

I love that young woman, regardless of how attractive other guys might find her.

And I love the others in the club who make me laugh at myself - the pathetic loser.

My wife of 40 years has zero sex drive, and she doesn’t mind if I go to the club. Hell, she wouldn’t mind if I had a girlfriend. I went out on a site to look for one, so I might not have to spend so much money at the club or OTC (which, for me, is always friendship and never sex).

After getting about thirty hits right away and looking through them, I thought “Fuck this. I like the young women at the club - at least most of them. I’d rather help them. I’ve got the money.”

Here’s the thing. I’m sure many of you recognize stories like this. I’m sure it happens everywhere.

I love the way you take care of each other - even here. You rock. I wish I had a big enough fortune to take care of all of you. Really.

And I don’t care if some of you think I’m full of shit. I wouldn’t blame you, given what you see.

But I’m not. I love you (at least most of you).

Just sayin’

Thanks. 🙏 😊