I’ve had only a few trips to clubs in my life, but I do admire pretty, well kept feet and like the idea of finding a dancer that is open to some foot related teasing and fun as part of a private dance.

What’s the best way to tactfully get connected with a dancer at the club who’s willing to engage in this type of private dance, and are dancers who don’t go for this type of thing open to recommending others in the club who might be ok with it (without resenting me for basically asking for another dancer if that’s not their cup of tea)?

Also should it ever be assumed that a girl in totally complicated closed off shoes will be uninterested in that type of thing? (even if only due to how hard it is to take them off and put them on again, I know time is money!)