Hey ladies my guy and I have been married for a long time our anniversary is coming up in 2 months. We've had some problems for a while and we just found our way back to each other.

We want to have a club date for our anniversary and even get a champagne room together with seperate dancers. I have only been to 2 clubs on two seperate occasions both with my guy.

I'm really excited for this date and I picked out an outfit but I wanted to check with all of you here to see if it's appropriate, I've heard that you can sometimes wear too little or too sexy and piss off the dancers and I don't want to do that. I want everyone to have a fun time.

I haven't really worn dresses all that much I've just been starting to wear them. I'm not a very confident woman and I think I'm finally starting to get comfortable in my body. I found this dress that I think I will really like I love the color and I've been seeing a lot more of velvet lately. I'm thinking of wearing it with fishnets and black boots but maybe some wedged sandals bc it will be pretty warm in a couple of months. I'm pretty self conscious about my arms they are a little chunky and my armpits are dark so I still need to figure out what to wear over the top.

What do you all think is it appropriate? Not too sexy to make anyone mad? And any suggestions to wear over the top to cover my arms?