Right, I’m a bottle of wine down after a delivery taster menu and I’ve been debating whether to post this, picked a flair, not necessarily the right one, but I’ve been looking for help.

I wonder if you’ve heard about the Sarah Everard case in the UK: woman walks home from friend’s house at early 9pm, is kidnapped and murdered by a not-known police officer within a 30 minute CCTV-free window and found over 30 miles away, dead in the woods a week later.

How the hell can I look a man in the eye and ask why he thinks “Not all men” is an appropriate response to women-centred violence?

I’m not looking for the ^{^} above response, but some structured question/discussion points that lead him to question his misogyny.

Thank you.

Ps. I have been absolutely cut up about the developments of this case all week.