Hi Everyone, just joined and I’m reading all the different threads. You all are so helpful.

My wife loves to peg me and gets super turned on by pleasuring me and me moaning/begging/etc. The issue is I would like to stimulate her physically back but the most I can do, while in the position of bottoming, is stretch my hand around and try to get to her clit as best I can. It kinda works, it gets tiring trying to receive pleasure while reaching around. (maybe you get the picture) Well Im looking for a few different answers and suggestions: What positions are best so that she can receive some physical intimacy (down there) as well?

Are there any special harnesses or toys that could be beneficial for her while wearing a harness?

Any strapless strap-ons that aren’t aggressively big? (or even a double ended dildo)