Last week me and my girl got really drunk and when we came home, we started to having oral sex in 69 position (this was nothing new for us) but then she went further and started touching my butt and I really liked it so I pushed her even further, down to my anus and she started analingus me and I loved it. Then She put one finger in my ass and started blowing my dick, the feeling was so amazing that I wanted to try even something bigger, so we went for her dildo. We put some lube on, and she slowely tried to put it in, but then the "problems" started.

A pain that I experienced immediately changed my mood, so we just went back to our normal sex.

But now I can't stop thinking about analingus and a feeling I expirienced when she put just a finger in my ass. I would really loved to try again with dildo - just an idea that she would fuck me makes me horny, so I need some advice.

How to prepare for a dildo or pegging? I read that Poppers can help relaxe anus muscle? Has anyone have some expirience with that?