I have been doing prostate play for several years and can have dozens of hands free dry orgasms with Aneros toys and my Edge 2. Just opened this up to my wife a few months ago and it has been amazing sharing it with her now. So far she has not given me a prostate massage with her fingers, but she does participate when I am using a toy myself.

I have not brought up pegging to her yet, but I plan to introduce the idea at some point. I have always had fantasies of being pegged, but though they would remain fantasies forever. Now there is the possibility it will happen.

Using prostate specific toys like Aneros I get amazing results. I have tried dildos several times and have a few that are curved for prostate stimulation, but so far I have not achieved an orgasm with a dildo and pushing one past the sigmoid bend it very often gets messy. That never happens with the shorter prostate toys even with no prep beforehand.

I would just stick with the prostate toys, but the thought of her pounding away at me is just a super turn on.

So my question is what would be the best non-realistic dildo and harness to use that provides prostate stimulation and is also short enough that it won't go past the sigmoid bend? Also want something that would be easy to rotate the dildo in so we can easily switch between me laying on my back or doggie.

It might take some time before I am ready to buy something, but I would like to do my research now so I know what to get if the opportunity is going to arise.