Already in advance sorry for my limited english, and also i dont know if this is the right place to post it. But if u know any better page for it, pls send it to me.

I have a few fetishes, like pegging, bdsm, Being sub and dom etc.. Recently i got a new girlfriend. Im 24 she is 33 and i opened up that i like pegging and she told its her big fantasie she has kinda sadistic character in bed. And now i try to explain her what i like , dont like and the details of it.

Now the question : how do i explain her i like testing the limits... ? With a strapon for example, i want that the dildo wil barley fit on the edge of hurting not hurting. Same for butplugs i like if u have it in for hrs and hrs on end it starts being uncomfy but that she will still dont allow me to take it out. I have these fantasies about a chasety cage also something not comfy. I would love if she forces a slightly to wide/long dildo in my ass, and that the day after i will have a sore ass from it. All some examples i cannot find a name or fetish for it. Or if she makes me wear her panties, this akward feeling of me being in her lingerie also turns me on. Dos this have a 1 name for all the above ?

I hope u wil understand the question. Or what im asking.

Thankx a lot for taking ur time to read this 😊