Hey everyone! So it finally happened. My wife strapped on a dildo and pegged me. Well if that’s what you want to call it. We really struggled to find a good position and our gear just kept malfunctioning.

She used a strapless dildo that vibrates internally and also pulsates her clit but when she put it through the harness the metal ring on the harness kept pressing the buttons on the toy and turning off the vibrations which broke focus. It is important for us for her to have stimulation while pegging me so this was frustrating that the toy kept turning off due to the harness.

Another issue was finding a position where she could penetrate me and thrust. I am 6’3” and she is 5’6”. We tried missionary but couldn’t get it right. I really want her to be able to thrust with having both hands free to stroke me and really just to be able to fuck me good. Everything felt just so clumsy with no rhythm.

However the positive is this was a long work in progress to get her to finally strap on a dildo and peg me. We have had plenty of anal play but she has been really hesitant to go a step further into pegging for multiple reason I don’t need to explain. Well now that we tried it she says she is definitely more open and willing to do it again and wants to do it better.

With all that being said, I would love some experienced couples advice on toys, harness combination as well as positions. I must mention that pegging for us is a romantic and sensual experience and not a dominating one so not looking for positions that cater towards just all out pounding. Thanks my pegging friends!