Hi there came across this community by accident and now I’m concerned over my possible future.. ok wife and I have been married for 20 plus years kids all great etc - sex life has slowed Menopause is a bitch that keeps on giving.. I’m fully supportive there I know it’s not her fault etc and we married for a reason and I still Love her etc. Any years ago she got me into butt play and told me her fantasy was to have me fucking her while I was being fucked. And we did that with toys etc and all good, she’s also pegged me in the past. I would say I’ve always had sub feelings in the bedroom and would love to see her with another guy or a couple etc - she knows this and we’ve role-played it etc. I would say in the last 5 years or so my Bi curiosity has grown a lot.. but not in a I’m gonna join grinder etc and meet some trucker blah blah blah but more in a bi mmf situation where whatever my wife wanted I’d be happy to go with. Now we have skirted with the idea of a 3rd guy etc but it’s never been a full on conversation. I’d like to lay the cards on the table and say hey I have this fantasy and would love to try it with you… but reading some of the posts on here I think I’d be opening up a Pandora’s box of pain of which there is no coming back from… arghh any help advice would be appreciated. Hope your all well and enjoying Christmas etc