Hi all,

I wondered if anyone has any recommendations for ways to support a newly-aware bi spouse (she’s 41f, I’m 41m) without them doing anything physical with someone else.

My wife is working through her feelings, I want to be there for her. I know she’d like kissing, cuddling and beyond in an ideal world and I’m not ready for that. Maybe I will be one day, maybe I won’t, but I still want to help her navigate this and make her feel less overwhelmed by the confusion etc this has brought on for her.

She’s not much of a deep talker and she’s not very emotional. I’m the opposite. I’d talk through it everyday, while that’s her idea of hell.