My wife recently told me she feels like she's also attracted to women and that it's something she's exploring in therapy.

When she told me this, she said me she was scared to tell me about this feelings she's having and didn't feel ready to tell me, but her therapist suggested she talked to me about it. I told her I love her the same as always. She assured me she still loves me the same as well and that she hopes nothing changes between us.

I've been thinking about how I could help her explore this side of her in a way that we can both be ok with. I don't think I would be ok with a polyamory type of arrangement, or to give her a pass to explore these things physically on her own with another person. Maybe it's a bit selfish, but I fear if I agree to let her do it all on her own or agree to an open marriage, it would inevitably mean that she would neglect our family (we have 2 young children together), just because relationships take a lot of time and effort.

Anyway, I found this subreddit and thought I would ask for advice on how I could help her in her exploration in a way that wouldn't involve another person to begin with. I could be open to having a threesome with her eventually if she really feels like she needs to experience the real thing with another woman, but I would avoid that as a first thing to try, I don't really want to have sex with another woman, but could be ok to have sex with my wife while she has sex with a woman.