I am currently dating a girl after a break up with my girlfriend 5 months ago. I am starting to like her a lot, shes cool and she really is trying to change some of our issues we had in the begining in terms of arguments and simple things I asked I really appreciate that. I haven't been perfect either and shes going above and beyond to make me feel good and she really likes me a lot I can feel it. But, her past is very questionable after she broke up with her BF she slept with 8-9 guys in a years period, with a few one night stands. Also she or more so was very materialistic with a trend in past to use "richer men" (im not rich just a good salary). With me shes been good as of late no real materialism or any drama and really trying to be good with me. She said shes tired of what she thought she wanted after she broke up with her simple ex and just went on a free for all. But she just wants a boyfriend she really loves and that she wants to change and shes unhappy and sad and really likes me and says I don't accept her or see her "as wife material" because of her past. I am no angel either, but my ideal was to find a girl who maybe was more of "good girl". I know this is maybe not place ask for advice. But I am a stoic practioner so its hard to separate normal advice from stoic since its a huge part of my life. I don't to consider someone like this a long term partner because of her past it makes me question what she will do in the future. But at same time falling in love with her and could see myself happy with her as a gf and long term partner like even a wife who knows. I have hope she was just on wrong path and maybe she can be a good person. I wanted her to meet my family, but at same time scared to get attached in case I'm wrong and she isn't a good person. Anyways right now I am deep on the fence what to do... In terms of looks and personality she's fine and think she's really pretty and cool it's just her past scares me, if it wasn't for that would love to stop being a bachelor and start dating her seriously and see how it goes! I use to be a big player but I'm tired of this wierd lifestyle wouldbe happy to trade for peace and quiet with someone I actually like and start building a life together. Maybe I'm naivee and a romantic or maybe I'm too logical for looking at her past not with brain... Let me what you think... Also she's 21 I'm 31 If it makes any difference.